Buddhist Belief – Do We Understand Suffering?


“By means of meditation we can teach our minds to be calm and balanced; within this calmness is a richness and a potential, an inner knowledge which can render our lives boundlessly satisfying and meaningful. While the mind may be what traps us in unhealthy patterns of stress and imbalance, it is also the mind which can free us. Through meditation, we can tap the healing qualities of mind.”
~~~ Tarthang Tulku

Among the many aspects I’ve mentioned in these posts about Buddhist Belief, are The Four Noble Truths. And, when we’re thinking about how we can better balance those “ups and downs” of our lives, it’s natural to keep coming back to the First Noble Truth of Buddhism. This Truth is, to state it briefly, “all things, all existing conditions, are dukkha, in a state of dis-ease”. (The hyphen is intentional – a state of not being “at ease”.)

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When we’re suffering, when we’re not at ease, when we’re dissatisfied, when we don’t have what we want, or when we have what we don’t want, the truth of this teaching of Buddha becomes fairly obvious. You know it because you feel it in your bones. You don’t doubt it for a minute. However, if we dig deeper into the teachings about the First Noble Truth, we’ll begin to uncover some additional thoughts about the often misinterpreted assertion that “everything is suffering”. We so often don’t get past this first Truth and allow ourselves to move on to further teachings, because we know “everything” is not suffering, so how could this be truthful teaching? There’s a lot of happiness running through our lives most days. No denying it! We know this, so we end up being somewhat distrustful of this “Buddhism/Suffering” stuff.

If we really look deeply into this “happiness” we all experience, we’ll see some interesting aspects. First of all, when we feel happy, we have a tendency to desire more of it – or we cling to it hoping it will last and last. We either cling to the happiness and often end up destroying it because of the clinging, or we start to worry and become anxious about losing it – and our anxiety gets in the way of truly enjoying the happiness – and we end up losing it as a result. Once we start grasping at our moments of happiness, we’ve taken the first steps toward losing them. Our desire for more of it is destroyed, and we end up anything but happy.

I have a belief that attachment and desire are not the same thing. Not every desire is attachment – but every attachment is desire. Most of us desire certain things. Sometimes, the likelihood of attaining those things isn’t realistic, so we don’t become attached them. Some people call these “pipe-dreams”. Do you see this? We don’t get “down” if this desire doesn’t happen. We’re so often caught in our up-and-down dilemmas. We’re torn between love and dislike, attachment and rejection. Almost every activity in our lives, every agenda, is directed by these powerful currents that sweep us back and forth all the time.

If we could tap into the true wisdom within us, we could probably handle all this back-and-forth and up-and-down stuff with no problem. But, until we figure out how to tap into that wisdom, we’re only able to use our human intelligence, but even that is tied and shackled by the confusion, fear, and ignorance that I call ego.

Ego is so powerful. Any tiny little disagreement comes up, and our ego feels hurt. It tells us, “I have not been respected! They don’t remember what I did for them! I am not being treated like a human being!” When we feel hurt all the time, it’s the ego that is getting hurt. These feelings are very powerful, and they completely control us. That is what is meant by tightly bound by karmic chains so hard to escape. Our dislikes push in one direction, our attachments pull in the other direction, and ego holds us tight in it’s grasp.

One way Buddhist teachers recommend as a way to escape from these attachments and desires it to make meditation a part of our lifestyle. Many people try meditation for awhile and quit because they say it’s too boring. If you think about it, though, meditation can only be boring if we allow our so-called separate self to enter into it. If we look at meditation from the point of view of our separate self, it appears we’re not doing anything. However, in true, authentic meditation, nothing is further from the truth. In true meditation, the entire universe is coming to us fresh and new every moment. The whole world is being born brand new every moment. How can that ever be boring?

Give your separate self up to true meditation and find this out. It’s only when we’re meditating with our separate self that anxiety, attachment, boredom, and other ego-tainted emotions creep into our precious moments. Our meditations need to be simple and basic. It’s learning how to see inside – understanding how we create suffering or dis-ease for ourselves. It’s seeing into it – through it – and how to let go of it. It’s a life of awareness. You sit and become totally attentive to what’s there in every moment. Let your practice become more and more simple, until you can let go of the confusions of methods and techniques. Just be – be only the awareness of what is.

Metta ….May I be well and happy. My I live in safety. May I be healthy and strong. May I live with ease. May all beings be well and happy. May all beings live in safety. May all beings be healthy and strong. May all beings live with ease.

Namaste — Be in Peace.

Ron Rink

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Ron’s Recommended Reading List — I’VE ADDED A COUPLE OF NEW BOOKS I HIGHLY RECOMMEND. CHECK THEM OUT — THEY’RE THE FIRST TWO ON THE READING LIST BELOW…,

Just click the links that are sort of Grey in color to take you to where you can learn more about each book and how you can purchase a copy for your own library.

Stephanie Kaza — Hooked!: Buddhist Writings on Greed, Desire, and the Urge to Consume

Stephanie Kaza, an amazing writer and Buddhist teacher I knew from my 36 years living in Vermont, gathers key Buddhist thinkers to reflect upon aspects of consumerism, greed and economics. Certainly, many other authors have examined consumerism from the lens of their religious traditions, but this book’s Buddhist perspective is unusual, and its pairing of consumerist critiques with core Buddhist concepts is generally fruitful. Check this one out! Hooked!

Stephanie Kaza — Mindfully Green: A Personal and Spiritual Guide to Whole Earth Thinking

Another one from my Vermont friend — Stephanie Kaza, a biologist and professor of Environmental Studies at University of Vermont, combines Zen Buddhist practices and teachings with her 40 years as an environmentalist for this guide to enlightened environmentalism, proposing a belief in the interdependence of people and nature as the genuine way to “go green”: “When we come to see ourselves as part of the green web of life… we are naturally drawn to respond with compassion.” A good read for Buddhists or anyone from any religion. Mindfully Green

Anam Thubten — No Self – No Problem

No Self – No Problem
shows how to realize the ultimate meaning of life in each moment by dissolving all notions of ego-identity. It asks that spiritual seekers wake up to their true nature, which is already enlightened. Based on Buddhist wisdom traditions, this easy-to-read book discusses in simple, but profound and inspiring language, how we can live a life full of love, satisfaction, and happiness. No Self – No Problem

Sharon Salzberg — The Kindness Handbook

“It takes boldness, even audacity, to step out of our habitual patterns and experiment with a quality like kindness–to work with it and see just how it might shift and open up our lives. This book is an invitation to do just that. — From The Kindness Handbook

Eckhart Tolle’s amazing best seller, A New Earth

Dr. Jill Bolte Taylor’s wonderful book, My Stroke of Insight: Nirvana is just a breath away!

And this one by Sharon Salzberg and is entitled: A Heart as Wide as the World: Living with Mindfulness, Wisdom and Compassion“.

This is a new one for you by Pema Chodron entitled: When Things Fall Apart: Heart Advice for Difficult Times
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Always remember this wonderful quote from Buddha ….


“You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.”

~~~ Buddha

Shanti everyone, … (A sanscrit word meaning, “Let there be Peace. Peace, beautiful Peace. Peace within, Peace without. Peace in this world. Peace for all beings.”)


“Peace comes from within. Do not seek it without.”

~~~ Buddha

Have a peaceful day!! —

Ron Rink

P.S. If you’d like to read my memoir/novel, you can access it here:
http://www.wecould2.com

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Buddhist Belief – Is There an Eternal Soul?


“There seem to be two kinds of searchers: those who seek to make their ego something other than it is, i.e. holy, happy, unselfish (as though you could make a fish unfish), and those who understand that all such attempts are just gesticulation and play-acting, that there is only one thing that can be done, which is to disidentify themselves with the ego, by realizing its unreality, and by becoming aware of their eternal identity with pure being.”
~~~ Fingers Pointing Toward the Moon by Wei Wu Wei

One of the questions I often ask myself as I’m proceeding with my study of Buddhist Belief, is this, Is there an eternal soul, or an unchanging, substantial self? Is there anything like this anywhere – in anyone? I can’t truly explain why I still want to write about this – I thought I had wrapped it up last time. **smile** Apparently not. There are still some more thoughts floating through this old mind I would like to share. I also discovered a great 12 minute talk given by Bob Thurman over at the TED Talks which I’ll share with you at the end of this post.

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Perhaps one of the reasons why I’m not ready to leave this be, is because when I look at the subject of “No_Self” from outside myself, I find it to be a bit threatening. If I’m not what I carry around inside my skin, then what am I? Who am I? Obviously, since I still have these questions, I still don’t have a decent enough grasp of what this all means. As Bob Thurman is going to explain in the video, it’s not until we come to the actual realization of “No-Self”, will it then become self-evident. Then it will be the most obvious thing in the world.

I’ll bet everyone reading this blog has experienced being totally burnt out or stressed out about something at some point in their life, right? If we’re like most people, if we’re in a situation like that, we try to offset it some way. Maybe it’s work we’re stressed out about, so we might call in sick, (even if we’re not) – or schedule a vacation – something to get us away from the stress. Oh, it feels so good not to be in the stress, doesn’t it? But what happens after a few days of this? We get a little bored and we start looking for something else to do. We’re not happy with all this quiet – we’re getting anxious – maybe a bit stressed again.

Think about it – isn’t that how life goes? We’re constantly swinging from one thing to another. We’re up – and then we’re down – so we need to do something to get up again. This is what Buddha was talking about in the First Noble Truth. This is the suffering – the samsara or the dukkha – we’re never satisfied. We’re always looking for something new so we can feel happy. We say to ourselves, “If only I could find a good balance in my life – not too much stress – and not too much boredom.” Have you ever really found such a balance? Is it even possible? It seems no matter how we may strive for “no stress/no boredom”, something always seems to come along to knock us off balance.

Once we come to a place where we realize what we’re experiencing is the dukkha, the suffering Buddha talks about, this should open some new doorways for our steps to break this cycle of ups and downs. There is no way this “self” we call “me” will ever find rest within itself. Is the reason for this because we’re so used to living with the ups and downs we don’t even consider the possibility of another way to live? It’s when we do understand how the lack of true balance is the result of dukkha, our addiction to suffering, we can begin our new journey towards true happiness and inner peace.

I’m going to wrap this up for this time, because I really would like you to take a few minutes to watch and listen to this video by Bob Thurman. I’ll pick this up again next time.

Robert Thurman was the first American to be ordained a Tibetan Monk by the Dalai Lama. He is a scholar, author and tireless proponent of peace. Thurman’s focus is on the balance between inner insight and cultural harmony. In interpreting the teachings of Buddha, he argues that happiness can be reliable and satisfying in an enduring way without depriving others. This video, where Bob Thurman says, “We can all be Buddhas“, was recorded as part of the TED Talks series in June of 2007. I hope you enjoy this as much as I did.

(If, for some reason, the embedded video doesn’t work for you, here’s a direct link:)

http://www.ted.com/talks/view/id/130

Metta ….May I be well and happy. My I live in safety. May I be healthy and strong. May I live with ease. May all beings be well and happy. May all beings live in safety. May all beings be healthy and strong. May all beings live with ease.

Namaste — Be in Peace.

Ron Rink

=====================================================

Ron’s Recommended Reading List — I’VE ADDED A COUPLE OF NEW BOOKS I HIGHLY RECOMMEND. CHECK THEM OUT — THEY’RE THE FIRST TWO ON THE READING LIST BELOW…,

Just click the links that are sort of Grey in color to take you to where you can learn more about each book and how you can purchase a copy for your own library.

Stephanie Kaza — Hooked!: Buddhist Writings on Greed, Desire, and the Urge to Consume

Stephanie Kaza, an amazing writer and Buddhist teacher I knew from my 36 years living in Vermont, gathers key Buddhist thinkers to reflect upon aspects of consumerism, greed and economics. Certainly, many other authors have examined consumerism from the lens of their religious traditions, but this book’s Buddhist perspective is unusual, and its pairing of consumerist critiques with core Buddhist concepts is generally fruitful. Check this one out! Hooked!

Stephanie Kaza — Mindfully Green: A Personal and Spiritual Guide to Whole Earth Thinking

Another one from my Vermont friend — Stephanie Kaza, a biologist and professor of Environmental Studies at University of Vermont, combines Zen Buddhist practices and teachings with her 40 years as an environmentalist for this guide to enlightened environmentalism, proposing a belief in the interdependence of people and nature as the genuine way to “go green”: “When we come to see ourselves as part of the green web of life… we are naturally drawn to respond with compassion.” A good read for Buddhists or anyone from any religion. Mindfully Green

Anam Thubten — No Self – No Problem

No Self – No Problem
shows how to realize the ultimate meaning of life in each moment by dissolving all notions of ego-identity. It asks that spiritual seekers wake up to their true nature, which is already enlightened. Based on Buddhist wisdom traditions, this easy-to-read book discusses in simple, but profound and inspiring language, how we can live a life full of love, satisfaction, and happiness. No Self – No Problem

Sharon Salzberg — The Kindness Handbook

“It takes boldness, even audacity, to step out of our habitual patterns and experiment with a quality like kindness–to work with it and see just how it might shift and open up our lives. This book is an invitation to do just that. — From The Kindness Handbook

Eckhart Tolle’s amazing best seller, A New Earth

Dr. Jill Bolte Taylor’s wonderful book, My Stroke of Insight: Nirvana is just a breath away!

And this one by Sharon Salzberg and is entitled: A Heart as Wide as the World: Living with Mindfulness, Wisdom and Compassion“.

This is a new one for you by Pema Chodron entitled: When Things Fall Apart: Heart Advice for Difficult Times
=====================================================
Always remember this wonderful quote from Buddha ….


“You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.”

~~~ Buddha

Shanti everyone, … (A sanscrit word meaning, “Let there be Peace. Peace, beautiful Peace. Peace within, Peace without. Peace in this world. Peace for all beings.”)


“Peace comes from within. Do not seek it without.”

~~~ Buddha

Have a peaceful day!! —

Ron Rink

P.S. If you;d like to read my memoir/novel, you can access it here:
http://www.wecould2.com

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Buddhist Belief – It’s Always About The Four Noble Truths!


“With the virtue of knowing selflessness, we are pulling the rug out from under the world’s ability to terrorize and confuse us.”
~~~ Sakyong Mipham Rinpoche

Last week in our writing about Buddhist Belief, we began to delve into the topic of “No-Self”. And, as I mentioned last time, this is a topic most of us have trouble truly integrating into our lives even though it is vitally important. As a matter of fact, the question of whether or not there is or is not a self is a major stumbling block, especially for those of us who live in Western cultures.

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This past week I was doing some more studying on this and found some teachers with interesting thoughts. There were a few of them who questioned this concept of “No-Self” saying, if Buddhism teaches we have no self, then what is it, or who is it, who experiences Karma – or who is it that experiences rebirth? Interesting, huh? Just a little something to add to our confusion, right?

Then, I did some more digging around and found some teachers who refer to the Pali Canon – which is, supposedly, the earliest written record of Buddha’s teachings, and those teachers say the question of Self vs. No-Self isn’t even mentioned. There is even mention in some of the ancient literature where Buddha refused to answer this question when asked. He said to come down on either side of the question of the Self vs. No-Self issue would cause one to enter into “wrong view” which is one of the steps in the Noble Eightfold Path (Right View), and would lead to additional suffering. Hmmm, this is getting even more interesting!

Since I see my role in writing this blog about Buddhist Belief to be that of one who is explaining Buddha’s teaching in language we Westerners can comprehend, then I feel I also need to be careful not to mislead in any way. Buddha did have some thoughts about how questions like this should be answered. He said a question should be looked at in this way:

Does it require a simple “Yes” or “No” answer?
Does it require and analytical answer?
Does it require the question to be answered with a question?
Does it require being set aside and not answered at all?

Buddha felt this was a question which should be put aside, rather than attempt any further effort to answer the question — is there a self? — In last week’s post we dealt with the thought of how any mention of self or no-self leads to an identification with a “self” of some sort, which in turn leads to a form of attachment or clinging and thus can lead to suffering. (Based on the basic teachings of Buddha – The Four Noble Truths.)


“You can lose only what you cling on to.”
~~~ Buddha

I’m beginning to make some sense in all this. I hope you are as well. Buddha is saying those nagging questions about “Do I exist?” or “Don’t I exist?” should be set aside because no matter how we try to answer them, our minds become occupied with, or attached to, the “Self” implied by the questions themselves — which can then lead to suffering and dissatisfaction.

Rather, what I see the Buddha saying is – go back to the basics – the Four Noble Truths – (1) there is suffering and stress in life, (2) the causes for the suffering, craving, clinging, desire, attachment, etc. (3) there are ways to get rid of the causes and the suffering, (4) and the steps to make it all happen. When issues occur in our lives, we should look at them in an attitude of calm and peace, such as what we experience when we meditate. (See, I’m always promoting meditation – always!)

Think of how we can look at these issues of suffering and stress in terms of the Noble Eightfold Path – look at them within a place of calm and you will see these issues are not about the question of “Self” or “No-Self”, but rather — is this suffering because of something I’m attached to – or something I’m foolishly holding onto – or something I want which I don’t have – or something I have that I don’t want? Is this thing making me suffer really about me, myself or mine? If this thing is making me suffer, then why hold onto it? Let it go! It’s truly not about me, myself, or mine. It’s only because you think it is which is making you cling to it. You will feel a lot better if you let it go, and you’ll also learn how, when you get rid of some of the attachments and clinging in your life, you will also get rid of another form of self-identification. Once the sense of self-identification is gone, you’ll have nothing left but pure, beautiful happiness.

Let’s see, did I just proceed to contradict everything I said last week? I don’t think so. When Buddhist teachers talk about “No_self” I think what they’re saying is — it is our self-obsession, our focus on the things and stuff we crave and cling to, including our obsession with a self, which leads to our suffering and dissatisfaction. When we experience emotions like anger, jealousy and desire, these are the result of an attachment to what we think of as “me”. These emotions come and go, they are not stable. These emotions come from our own pride – our feeling we are separate from – perhaps even better than – everything else. This pride is our ego , our mind, telling us yet another lie. We’re making our mirage into a lake of water. If we didn’t have this confusion, there wouldn’t be a belief in a self, for there wouldn’t be any self-obsession.

If only it wasn’t for our mind!!

Let’s end this post with these words from an article written by Lama Chuck Stanford, of the Rime Buddhist Center & Monastery which, hopefully, will help us to understand:


The brilliant cartoonist Walt Kelly created the wonderful character of Pogo. One of Pogo’s most famous lines was, “We have met the enemy and he is us.” It is funny, but true, because our negative emotions are our worst enemy.

In one of the sutras, the Buddha said: “Imagine you are on a battlefield with thousands of troops all around you. You must fight them all single-handedly, and you manage to conquer them all. Now imagine doing this a thousand times.”

The Buddha said doing that is an easier task than conquering one’s own mind.

It is our duty to do battle with the enemy of negative emotions. If we truly wish to achieve any kind of ultimate happiness, we have to use the antidote of mindfulness to fight against this enemy. Meditation is an excellent method for cultivating this kind of mindfulness.

Once you have a life of pure, beautiful happiness, there won’t be any further thought of whether a “Self” or a “None-Self” is experiencing it – it just won’t matter any longer. Life will be good. We will know true happiness.

Metta ….May I be well and happy. My I live in safety. May I be healthy and strong. May I live with ease. May all beings be well and happy. May all beings live in safety. May all beings be healthy and strong. May all beings live with ease.

Namaste — Be in Peace.

Ron Rink

=====================================================

Ron’s Recommended Reading List — I’VE ADDED A COUPLE OF NEW BOOKS I HIGHLY RECOMMEND. CHECK THEM OUT — THEY’RE THE FIRST TWO ON THE READING LIST BELOW…,

Just click the links that are sort of Grey in color to take you to where you can learn more about each book and how you can purchase a copy for your own library.

Stephanie Kaza — Hooked!: Buddhist Writings on Greed, Desire, and the Urge to Consume

Stephanie Kaza, an amazing writer and Buddhist teacher I knew from my 36 years living in Vermont, gathers key Buddhist thinkers to reflect upon aspects of consumerism, greed and economics. Certainly, many other authors have examined consumerism from the lens of their religious traditions, but this book’s Buddhist perspective is unusual, and its pairing of consumerist critiques with core Buddhist concepts is generally fruitful. Check this one out! Hooked!

Stephanie Kaza — Mindfully Green: A Personal and Spiritual Guide to Whole Earth Thinking

Another one from my Vermont friend — Stephanie Kaza, a biologist and professor of Environmental Studies at University of Vermont, combines Zen Buddhist practices and teachings with her 40 years as an environmentalist for this guide to enlightened environmentalism, proposing a belief in the interdependence of people and nature as the genuine way to “go green”: “When we come to see ourselves as part of the green web of life… we are naturally drawn to respond with compassion.” A good read for Buddhists or anyone from any religion. Mindfully Green

Anam Thubten — No Self – No Problem

No Self – No Problem
shows how to realize the ultimate meaning of life in each moment by dissolving all notions of ego-identity. It asks that spiritual seekers wake up to their true nature, which is already enlightened. Based on Buddhist wisdom traditions, this easy-to-read book discusses in simple, but profound and inspiring language, how we can live a life full of love, satisfaction, and happiness. No Self – No Problem

Sharon Salzberg — The Kindness Handbook

“It takes boldness, even audacity, to step out of our habitual patterns and experiment with a quality like kindness–to work with it and see just how it might shift and open up our lives. This book is an invitation to do just that. — From The Kindness Handbook

Eckhart Tolle’s amazing best seller, A New Earth

Dr. Jill Bolte Taylor’s wonderful book, My Stroke of Insight: Nirvana is just a breath away!

And this one by Sharon Salzberg and is entitled: A Heart as Wide as the World: Living with Mindfulness, Wisdom and Compassion“.

This is a new one for you by Pema Chodron entitled: When Things Fall Apart: Heart Advice for Difficult Times
=====================================================
Always remember this wonderful quote from Buddha ….


“You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.”

~~~ Buddha

Shanti everyone, … (A sanscrit word meaning, “Let there be Peace. Peace, beautiful Peace. Peace within, Peace without. Peace in this world. Peace for all beings.”)


“Peace comes from within. Do not seek it without.”

~~~ Buddha

Have a peaceful day!! —

Ron Rink

P.S. If you;d like to read my memoir/novel, you can access it here:
http://www.wecould2.com

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Buddhist Belief – Selflessness? What’s That About?


“We are formed and molded by our thoughts. Those whose minds are shaped by selfless thoughts give joy when they speak or act. Joy follows them like a shadow that never leaves them.”
~~~ Buddha

Over the past two or three weeks it seems like most of the studying I’m doing, many of the articles I’m reading and other happenings in my life relating to Buddhist Belief, have to do with the Buddhist concept of “No-Self”. Needless to say, this isn’t one of the aspects of Buddhism most people feel comfortable with or find easily understandable. I know I don’t, so I guess therein lies my clue to get busy and do some writing about it – and see if I can get some clarity about this “No-Self” concept for us. So often, when I take on the process of writing about something, the “something” becomes clearer. Maybe it will work with this as well. I hope so.

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I would bet most of you have experienced a mirage. You don’t have to be in the desert to see one of these, we can also see them driving on a road during the summer months when the temperature is high. You look ahead of you and see the shimmering on the road surface. As you continue to drive, the shimmering, water-like image you see never materializes — it keeps staying far ahead of you. This holds true with other imaginations as well. It seems to be a human trait to make certain appearances into “things” other than what they truly are. Just the other day I looked out of my office window and saw a new white flower along the back fence which I had never seen before. When I went out later to investigate, it turned out to be nothing more than a small piece of white paper which had blown into the yard and was entangled in one of the flower beds.

One of the things we all do is say, “I have a self. I exist.” Yet, when we sit in our meditation – when we study the Buddhist teachings – we see how our own inner wisdom is trying to teach us there is “no self” in the way we perceive the self. Think about what Buddha had to say on this subject, “The self we imagine to be solid and continuous is really just a gathering of ever-changing ingredients.” It makes sense when we really think about it. We have some blood, some bones, some skin, some thoughts, some emotions, some memories, some perceptions, and we call this conglomeration of stuff — “Me”.

Okay, why not? What’s wrong with this conclusion? Why does Buddha want us to avoid this concept? (I wish I had an easy to understand answer, but the best I can do is talk about what I’ve learned.) When we take all these items, put them together and call it, “Me”, it’s sort of like looking up at the clouds and seeing them form into a certain shape and giving the shape a name based on what the shape appears to be. Yet, a few moments later, the shape is gone and changed into something else. This illusion we call “Me”, is just as transparent and ever-changing as the clouds.

I think one of the reasons why Buddhist teachings talk about “No-Self”, is because once we take this collection of blood, bones, thoughts, emotions, etc., and call it “me”, we form an attachment to “me”. When we form attachments to “me“, we open the door to a variety of potential problems for “me”, – fear, pride, and jealousy come to mind. This idea of “me” starts us thinking about the rest of the world as “they”. If I’m real, so are they. So, if “they” take something away from “me”, then I’ll feel anger or pain – and suffering begins. As one of the teachers I’ve read (I don’t recall which one) said, “This suffering is the result of ignorance. Suffering is the reverberation of not knowing selflessness.” (Not an exact quote, but something like that.)

I can tell already how this topic is going to be one we write more about as the weeks go by. It’s too much for one blog post. Plus, I don’t know about you, but I’m still in the head-scratching stage.

Before we sign off on this post, I’d like to quote some thoughts about this from one of my favorite teachers, Anam Thubten. I’m quoting from his book, “No Self – No Problem”, which has been in my recommended reading list below. This quote is from the beginning of his book.


“We identify with our body made out of flesh, bones and other components and therefor we believe we are material, substantial, and concrete. This understanding has become so embedded in our belief system that we rarely question it. The results of that are the inevitable conditions of old age, sickness and death. We acquire these conditions simply out of believing we are this physical body. We always pay a high price when we believe in false ideas. This perception is not just held individually; it is held dearly by the collective mind of society and has been for many generations. That is why it is so strongly entrenched in our psyche. Our normal, everyday perception of each other is governed by this false identity and then strengthened and enforced by the language we use.”

In one of his first teachings after he achieved enlightenment, Buddha taught how life is suffering and painful for this basic reason — we are self-obsessed. If we didn’t feel anger, jealousy, greed or fear, then we would be at peace. It is this perception of our “Self” which bring about all these negative emotions.

Here’s a short poem to use in your meditations this week ..

Know all things to be like this:
A mirage, a cloud castle,
A dream, an apparition,
Without essence, but with qualities that can be seen.

Know all things to be like this:
As the moon in a bright sky
In some clear lake reflected,
Though to that lake the moon has never moved.

Know all things to be like this:
As an echo that derives
From music, sounds, and weeping,
Yet in that echo is no melody.

Know all things to be like this:
As a magician makes illusions
Of horses, oxen, carts and other things,
Nothing is as it appears.

Samadhi Raja Sutra

We’ll continue this thought process in the next week’s post.

Metta ….May I be well and happy. My I live in safety. May I be healthy and strong. May I live with ease. May all beings be well and happy. May all beings live in safety. May all beings be healthy and strong. May all beings live with ease.

Namaste — Be in Peace.

Ron Rink

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Ron’s Recommended Reading List — I’VE ADDED A COUPLE OF NEW BOOKS I HIGHLY RECOMMEND. CHECK THEM OUT — THEY’RE THE FIRST TWO ON THE READING LIST BELOW…,

Just click the links that are sort of Grey in color to take you to where you can learn more about each book and how you can purchase a copy for your own library.

Stephanie Kaza — Hooked!: Buddhist Writings on Greed, Desire, and the Urge to Consume

Stephanie Kaza, an amazing writer and Buddhist teacher I knew from my 36 years living in Vermont, gathers key Buddhist thinkers to reflect upon aspects of consumerism, greed and economics. Certainly, many other authors have examined consumerism from the lens of their religious traditions, but this book’s Buddhist perspective is unusual, and its pairing of consumerist critiques with core Buddhist concepts is generally fruitful. Check this one out! Hooked!

Stephanie Kaza — Mindfully Green: A Personal and Spiritual Guide to Whole Earth Thinking

Another one from my Vermont friend — Stephanie Kaza, a biologist and professor of Environmental Studies at University of Vermont, combines Zen Buddhist practices and teachings with her 40 years as an environmentalist for this guide to enlightened environmentalism, proposing a belief in the interdependence of people and nature as the genuine way to “go green”: “When we come to see ourselves as part of the green web of life… we are naturally drawn to respond with compassion.” A good read for Buddhists or anyone from any religion. Mindfully Green

Anam Thubten — No Self – No Problem

No Self – No Problem
shows how to realize the ultimate meaning of life in each moment by dissolving all notions of ego-identity. It asks that spiritual seekers wake up to their true nature, which is already enlightened. Based on Buddhist wisdom traditions, this easy-to-read book discusses in simple, but profound and inspiring language, how we can live a life full of love, satisfaction, and happiness. No Self – No Problem

Sharon Salzberg — The Kindness Handbook

“It takes boldness, even audacity, to step out of our habitual patterns and experiment with a quality like kindness–to work with it and see just how it might shift and open up our lives. This book is an invitation to do just that. — From The Kindness Handbook

Eckhart Tolle’s amazing best seller, A New Earth

Dr. Jill Bolte Taylor’s wonderful book, My Stroke of Insight: Nirvana is just a breath away!

And this one by Sharon Salzberg and is entitled: A Heart as Wide as the World: Living with Mindfulness, Wisdom and Compassion“.

This is a new one for you by Pema Chodron entitled: When Things Fall Apart: Heart Advice for Difficult Times
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Always remember this wonderful quote from Buddha ….


“You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.”

~~~ Buddha

Shanti everyone, … (A sanscrit word meaning, “Let there be Peace. Peace, beautiful Peace. Peace within, Peace without. Peace in this world. Peace for all beings.”)


“Peace comes from within. Do not seek it without.”

~~~ Buddha

Have a peaceful day!! —

Ron Rink

P.S. If you;d like to read my memoir/novel, you can access it here:
http://www.wecould2.com

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Buddhist Belief – Change Just Happens!


“Turn your mind away from things which are not permanent.”

~~~ Buddha

Those of us who are devoting some time and energy to learning more about Buddhist Belief are, I would bet, discovering some interesting factors about how we live our lives – at least I am. One of the primary teachings of Buddha is how the reason we’re dissatisfied so much of the time is because we’re not willing to let go of our craving and clinging to things, people and other “stuff”, as well as our reluctance to accept the Buddhist teaching – nothing is permanent.

Buddhist Belief, meditation, nirvana, mindfulness, karma

Obviously, one of the reasons why we have so much trouble with this “letting go” process, is because of our persistent resistance to change. Sure, there are going to be times when we would happily welcome change. Times when we don’t feel good – or – times when something has entered our lives we don’t like – those, and similar circumstances, are the times we’d love some change and as soon as possible, please!

However, the most interesting thing about this resistance to change is we know change is going to happen, no matter what we do, yet we continue to fight it. We fight it with vigor, even though we know, deep down, whatever it is won’t last. We know nothing is permanent, yet we refuse to accept this as fact. We see it proven to us over and over, yet we continue to cling to the myth of permanence. We’ve been thoroughly indoctrinated for many centuries to believe this way – it has become an ingrained habit, and habits are, as we know, extremely difficult to break. Change is always happening in every moment. It never stops – it never gives up – it never slows down, and still, we don’t cease our wanting more permanency in our lives.

We can’t make change slow down or stop, but we can stop and slow down ourselves a bit and pay closer attention to what we’re doing. Of course, in order to slow down and become more aware, we need to know it’s a step we have available to us. Here’s where the study of Buddhist Belief comes in. Buddha taught how being more mindful of what we’re doing would reveal ways to ease the suffering of our lives.

What’s interesting about the process of slowing ourselves down and paying more attention to the change happening around us, is we begin to see how all our actions to try and stop it are exercises in futility. We begin to see how striving for permanence in an impermanent world is like banging our heads against a really hard brick wall. This is when we begin saying to ourselves, “Whoa, what am I doing? This isn’t working for me!” Once we reach this point of being more aware, we begin to see how the way we’ve been dealing with our life isn’t working, and new thoughts and ideas surface — showing us new and different paths to follow. We begin to realize we’ve been following the wrong leader – our ego-centered master – instead of going to the place within us where true knowledge is ready and willing to take over, if only we’ll allow it to happen.

As usual, and as those of you who have been reading this blog for any time know, I often write about what’s on my mind – and what the lessons are I need to reinforce for my own life – and hoping what I have to say will be helpful to you as well as to me. We all know how the study of Buddhist teachings will lead to revealing ways to learn to let go and quit fighting change. But when you get to a point later in your life where terminal illness has entered your reality, the teaching about impermanence becomes truly vivid. We begin to see the utter futility of trying to hold onto things. So much of the acceptance of change seems to happen rather naturally. Learning to accept “what is” makes more sense because we can see how there really aren’t a lot of other choices, anyway — or, as the young people would say, “Like none, dude!”

This whole concept of the impermanence of things and people is now seen with more clarity. It’s no longer a struggle to force something to happen – you don’t have to work at letting go or holding on – you just “go with the flow”. You discover how letting go of our resistance to change is always happening when we stay in the moment. It’s interesting too, when we live more in the present, the letting go just sort of happens – and when we are accepting of “what is” it’s so much easier to stay in the present.

As I say nearly every time I write another article for this blog – meditation – daily meditation – is vital. Meditation is the way to discover what it means to be in the moment. It is the way to train your mind to see truth more readily. If practicing meditation isn’t a part of your daily life, why not block out a few minutes each day in your schedule to meditate. It can be a short time to begin with – perhaps 15 minutes. Some of you may have had parents who said to you when you were a child, “Eat this, it’s good for you!”

Well, I’m saying, “Meditate, it’s good for you!”

Metta ….May I be well and happy. My I live in safety. May I be healthy and strong. May I live with ease. May all beings be well and happy. May all beings live in safety. May all beings be healthy and strong. May all beings live with ease.

Namaste — Be in Peace.

Ron Rink

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Ron’s Recommended Reading List — I’VE ADDED A COUPLE OF NEW BOOKS I HIGHLY RECOMMEND. CHECK THEM OUT — THEY’RE THE FIRST TWO ON THE READING LIST BELOW…,

Just click the links that are sort of Grey in color to take you to where you can learn more about each book and how you can purchase a copy for your own library.

Stephanie Kaza — Hooked!: Buddhist Writings on Greed, Desire, and the Urge to Consume

Stephanie Kaza, an amazing writer and Buddhist teacher I knew from my 36 years living in Vermont, gathers key Buddhist thinkers to reflect upon aspects of consumerism, greed and economics. Certainly, many other authors have examined consumerism from the lens of their religious traditions, but this book’s Buddhist perspective is unusual, and its pairing of consumerist critiques with core Buddhist concepts is generally fruitful. Check this one out! Hooked!

Stephanie Kaza — Mindfully Green: A Personal and Spiritual Guide to Whole Earth Thinking

Another one from my Vermont friend — Stephanie Kaza, a biologist and professor of Environmental Studies at University of Vermont, combines Zen Buddhist practices and teachings with her 40 years as an environmentalist for this guide to enlightened environmentalism, proposing a belief in the interdependence of people and nature as the genuine way to “go green”: “When we come to see ourselves as part of the green web of life… we are naturally drawn to respond with compassion.” A good read for Buddhists or anyone from any religion. Mindfully Green

Anam Thubten — No Self – No Problem

No Self – No Problem
shows how to realize the ultimate meaning of life in each moment by dissolving all notions of ego-identity. It asks that spiritual seekers wake up to their true nature, which is already enlightened. Based on Buddhist wisdom traditions, this easy-to-read book discusses in simple, but profound and inspiring language, how we can live a life full of love, satisfaction, and happiness. No Self – No Problem

Sharon Salzberg — The Kindness Handbook

“It takes boldness, even audacity, to step out of our habitual patterns and experiment with a quality like kindness–to work with it and see just how it might shift and open up our lives. This book is an invitation to do just that. — From The Kindness Handbook

Eckhart Tolle’s amazing best seller, A New Earth

Dr. Jill Bolte Taylor’s wonderful book, My Stroke of Insight: Nirvana is just a breath away!

And this one by Sharon Salzberg and is entitled: A Heart as Wide as the World: Living with Mindfulness, Wisdom and Compassion“.

This is a new one for you by Pema Chodron entitled: When Things Fall Apart: Heart Advice for Difficult Times
=====================================================
Always remember this wonderful quote from Buddha ….


“You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.”

~~~ Buddha

Shanti everyone, … (A sanscrit word meaning, “Let there be Peace. Peace, beautiful Peace. Peace within, Peace without. Peace in this world. Peace for all beings.”)


“Peace comes from within. Do not seek it without.”

~~~ Buddha

Have a peaceful day!! —

Ron Rink

P.S. If you;d like to read my memoir/novel, you can access it here:
http://www.wecould2.com

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