“If you would like to know what you did in past lives, look at your present body,” and “if you would like to know where you will go next, look at your present actions.”~~~ H.E. Garchen Rinpoche
This past Tuesday night I had the wonderful privilege to be present for a talk by His Eminence Garchen Rinpoche. He spoke on “How to Find Happiness in Today’s World” and I found his wisdom to be inspiring. I felt he made the teachings of Buddhist Belief so clear and understandable. Rinpoche doesn’t speak much English, so his talk was done through an interpreter, who did an amazing job of making his entire message clear to all of us. It was an evening I will remember for all my life.

As I said above, his talk was inspiring and it leads me to want to write some of my own thoughts about what he had to say. He spoke a great deal about the suffering we humans have to endure in our lives. One of the things Buddha made clear in many of his teachings is that Buddhism is about how to get rid of suffering. So often, people acquaint Buddhism with just the opposite – they feel Buddhism is about suffering, but all the teachings are about how to eliminate it from our lives. In fact, if people came to Buddha with questions or to seek advice about things which would not lead to the relief from suffering, he didn’t discuss them.
There’s a wonderful Buddhist story about the time when Buddha was walking through the forest with some monks and he picked up a handful of leaves. He asked the monks to decide which was the greater amount, the leaves in his hand or all the leaves in the forest. Of course, all the monks said there were more leaves in the forest. Buddha told the monks that there are, indeed, many more leaves in all the forest and they were similar to all the things we know or think we need to know. However, he went on, all the things that are necessary to know – things which should be taught and practiced, were equal to the number of leaves in his hand.
This story seems to bring some clarity to what we need to know to alleviate suffering based on Buddhist Belief. We don’t need to know a lot in order have a clear understanding of what should be in our practice. We have to be paying attention to whether we’re placing our life principles on clinging to things and stuff we call “mine”. When Buddha compared the things he had realized (which were as many as the leaves in the forest) with the things he taught his followers to include in their practice (which were merely a single handful of leaves), the single handful of teachings were about the principle of not grasping or clinging to anything as being “self” or belonging to “self”.
Grasping and clinging is what causes suffering. When we grasp and cling we suffer. When we cease to grasp and cling, suffering vanishes. Our practice is to train our minds to not grasp, cling, and give into our “wants”. That’s enough. That’s all we have to do. This is our practice. When we are free of grasping and clinging our hearts will be in refuge with the Buddha, the Dharma, and the Sangha. I felt Garchen Rinpoche made this crystal clear the other night.
Once we are free of grasping or clinging to a self or a possession of self, all our behaviors will be in keeping with the Buddhist concept of “sila” or virtuous conduct. When our minds are free we find we are able to concentrate with ease. Only the mind that is free of the causes of suffering can have the true stability of correct concentration. As far as wisdom goes, the essence of wisdom is the mind which is free of “self”.
Getting back to the story of the leaves, Buddha taught that his handful of leaves was the essence of the end of suffering. This was all we needed to know and understand. Once we train our minds with this practice, we have learned all we need to know.
As Garchen Rinpoche said often the other night , “The cause of happiness is love. The cause of suffering is self-grasping.”
I’d like to leave you with a short video about H.E. Garchen Rinpoche. Here is the link:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EcUghigbD3o
Metta ….May I be well and happy. My I live in safety. May I be healthy and strong. May I live with ease. May all beings be well and happy. May all beings live in safety. May all beings be healthy and strong. May all beings live with ease.
Namaste — Be in Peace.
Ron Rink
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Just click the links that are sort of Grey in color to take you to where you can learn more about each book and how you can purchase a copy for your own library.
Stephanie Kaza — Hooked!: Buddhist Writings on Greed, Desire, and the Urge to Consume
Stephanie Kaza, an amazing writer and Buddhist teacher I knew from my 36 years living in Vermont, gathers key Buddhist thinkers to reflect upon aspects of consumerism, greed and economics. Certainly, many other authors have examined consumerism from the lens of their religious traditions, but this book’s Buddhist perspective is unusual, and its pairing of consumerist critiques with core Buddhist concepts is generally fruitful. Check this one out! Hooked!
Stephanie Kaza — Mindfully Green: A Personal and Spiritual Guide to Whole Earth Thinking
Another one from my Vermont friend — Stephanie Kaza, a biologist and professor of Environmental Studies at University of Vermont, combines Zen Buddhist practices and teachings with her 40 years as an environmentalist for this guide to enlightened environmentalism, proposing a belief in the interdependence of people and nature as the genuine way to “go green”: “When we come to see ourselves as part of the green web of life… we are naturally drawn to respond with compassion.” A good read for Buddhists or anyone from any religion. Mindfully Green
Anam Thubten — No Self – No Problem
No Self – No Problem
shows how to realize the ultimate meaning of life in each moment by dissolving all notions of ego-identity. It asks that spiritual seekers wake up to their true nature, which is already enlightened. Based on Buddhist wisdom traditions, this easy-to-read book discusses in simple, but profound and inspiring language, how we can live a life full of love, satisfaction, and happiness. No Self – No Problem
Sharon Salzberg — The Kindness Handbook
“It takes boldness, even audacity, to step out of our habitual patterns and experiment with a quality like kindness–to work with it and see just how it might shift and open up our lives. This book is an invitation to do just that. — From The Kindness Handbook
Eckhart Tolle’s amazing best seller, A New Earth
Dr. Jill Bolte Taylor’s wonderful book, My Stroke of Insight: Nirvana is just a breath away!
And this one by Sharon Salzberg and is entitled: A Heart as Wide as the World: Living with Mindfulness, Wisdom and Compassion“.
This is a new one for you by Pema Chodron entitled: When Things Fall Apart: Heart Advice for Difficult Times
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Always remember this wonderful quote from Buddha ….
“You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.”~~~ Buddha
Shanti everyone, … (A sanscrit word meaning, “Let there be Peace. Peace, beautiful Peace. Peace within, Peace without. Peace in this world. Peace for all beings.”)
“Peace comes from within. Do not seek it without.”~~~ Buddha
Have a peaceful day!! —
Ron Rink
P.S. If you’d like to read my memoir/novel, you can access it here:
http://www.wecould2.com


