“In terms of Buddhist thought, the process of aging consciously involves staying open to the sometimes harsh realities of what’s happening to the body and mind during this time. Equally important is knowing what our inner resources are – where is our strength? This growing old stuff is unpredictable territory and I’m learning my best sources of strength are the teachings of Buddha and my daily meditation practice.”~~~ Ron Rink
I have had considerable difficulties getting down to the process of writing in this Buddhist blog over the past few weeks. I feel there were plenty of things I wanted to write about, but I always felt they were too personal to include in writing about Buddhist Belief. I felt they were about what was going through my mind on a day-to-day basis and not necessarily things my readers would be interested in reading, so I didn’t do any writing at all.

Also, during this same “writing dry spell”, major changes were taking place in my life. Those who know me personally know that over the past couple of years I’ve progressed from needing oxygen therapy during exercise and while sleeping, to now being on oxygen 24/7 and needing a wheelchair to get from one place to another as walking and breathing at the same time were no longer possible. I knew my disease (pulmonary fibrosis) was progressive but, as I stated in the quote above, part of the unpredictability of growing older is not knowing the rate of such progression. These health changes were leading to the place where I was needing more help around the house and going to places. Plus, many of the household functions I usually took care of have now been dropped in my wife’s lap. To top it all off, I will also have completed 78 years on the planet at the end of next month.
About three weeks ago some major events took place in my wife’s family. Her daughter became very ill with bacterial meningitis and was near death. She was in critical condition in a local hospital here and needed to have open heart surgery to repair a valve damaged by the bacteria in her blood stream. She also developed a serious bacterial infection in one of her eyes. She did come through the heart surgery alright but is now in danger of losing the sight in her eye. She is, as of today, still in the hospital.
She is also the mother of three children – two teen-age girls and one son who is now just 2-years old. She is a single mother. Since her prognosis is unknown and her future in general is up-in-the-air, my wife has become the legal guardian of the three grand-children. Three more people have moved into our home and are now in our care.
You’re probably asking yourself what does all this have to do with writing about Buddhist Belief? I will be continuing this topic in the next edition of the blog which will not be weeks from now, but rather in a few days. I will write more about how Buddhist teaching has helped me in dealing with these drastic changes and relating how my following a Buddhist lifestyle is playing into all of it.
I will leave this post today with a wonderful tale about the Buddha and being older.
Back in Buddha’s day, there lived a man who was near his eighties who had done little about his spiritual life. Thinking he really should look into this shortcoming while he still could he set out to find Buddha’s encampment which he had heard was nearby. He was old, hopeless and dressed poorly, so he looked like he might be a beggar. When he found the encampment he asked the senior monks if he could be accepted into the sangha.
After checking out what this man had done with his spiritual life, the monks replied, “You are an old man and haven’t done any practice, so there’s no point in giving you teachings now.”
Completely dejected with this news, the old man lay down in front of the door to the encampment. When the Buddha came by he asked the old man why he was lying there. The old man told his story, to which the Buddha replied, “Some of my monks don’t realize that just because the body is old, there’s still every reason to practice. All you need is courage and enthusiasm to study and meditate. I know you have insight and roots of virtue. I will take care of you.”
The old man eventually became enlightened.
The Dalai Lama told this story at a conference in New York a while ago and added this comment, “ There’s no reason to feel old just because the body is old. The mind can still be young and full of enthusiasm. We can have the courage to carry on our study and practice.”
Metta ….May I be well and happy. My I live in safety. May I be healthy and strong. May I live with ease. May all beings be well and happy. May all beings live in safety. May all beings be healthy and strong. May all beings live with ease.
Namaste — Be in Peace.
Ron Rink
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Just click the links that are sort of Grey in color to take you to where you can learn more about each book and how you can purchase a copy for your own library.
Stephanie Kaza — Hooked!: Buddhist Writings on Greed, Desire, and the Urge to Consume
Stephanie Kaza, an amazing writer and Buddhist teacher I knew from my 36 years living in Vermont, gathers key Buddhist thinkers to reflect upon aspects of consumerism, greed and economics. Certainly, many other authors have examined consumerism from the lens of their religious traditions, but this book’s Buddhist perspective is unusual, and its pairing of consumerist critiques with core Buddhist concepts is generally fruitful. Check this one out! Hooked!
Stephanie Kaza — Mindfully Green: A Personal and Spiritual Guide to Whole Earth Thinking
Another one from my Vermont friend — Stephanie Kaza, a biologist and professor of Environmental Studies at University of Vermont, combines Zen Buddhist practices and teachings with her 40 years as an environmentalist for this guide to enlightened environmentalism, proposing a belief in the interdependence of people and nature as the genuine way to “go green”: “When we come to see ourselves as part of the green web of life… we are naturally drawn to respond with compassion.” A good read for Buddhists or anyone from any religion. Mindfully Green
Anam Thubten — No Self – No Problem
No Self – No Problem
shows how to realize the ultimate meaning of life in each moment by dissolving all notions of ego-identity. It asks that spiritual seekers wake up to their true nature, which is already enlightened. Based on Buddhist wisdom traditions, this easy-to-read book discusses in simple, but profound and inspiring language, how we can live a life full of love, satisfaction, and happiness. No Self – No Problem
Sharon Salzberg — The Kindness Handbook
“It takes boldness, even audacity, to step out of our habitual patterns and experiment with a quality like kindness–to work with it and see just how it might shift and open up our lives. This book is an invitation to do just that. — From The Kindness Handbook
Eckhart Tolle’s amazing best seller, A New Earth
Dr. Jill Bolte Taylor’s wonderful book, My Stroke of Insight: Nirvana is just a breath away!
And this one by Sharon Salzberg and is entitled: A Heart as Wide as the World: Living with Mindfulness, Wisdom and Compassion“.
This is a new one for you by Pema Chodron entitled: When Things Fall Apart: Heart Advice for Difficult Times
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Always remember this wonderful quote from Buddha ….
“You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.”~~~ Buddha
Shanti everyone, … (A sanscrit word meaning, “Let there be Peace. Peace, beautiful Peace. Peace within, Peace without. Peace in this world. Peace for all beings.”)
“Peace comes from within. Do not seek it without.”~~~ Buddha
Have a peaceful day!! —
Ron Rink
P.S. If you’d like to read my memoir/novel, you can access it here:
http://www.wecould2.com





