Buddhist Belief – Violence is a State of Mind!
“By means of meditation we can teach our minds to be calm and balanced; within this calmness is a richness and a potential, an inner knowledge which can render our lives boundlessly satisfying and meaningful. While the mind may be what traps us in unhealthy patterns of stress and imbalance, it is also the mind which can free us. Through meditation, we can tap the healing qualities of mind.”~~~ Tarthang Tulku
Violence doesn’t always have to be a physical act. It is one of our emotions and it gets its start in our mind. One of the many teachings of Buddhist Belief is that if there is violence in the world, we have created it. Even when we are thinking thoughts that are harmful to ourselves, we are committing violence.

Violence can be very subtle. It can manifest itself with no more than what we are thinking. If we hear something on the TV, or read something online or in the news, and we react to it with a thought of hatred or a wish for harm to come to someone who has done evil in the world, we are promoting violence. Not only are we in this subtle way creating violence, there may be thousands of others having similar thoughts. Even though we may never act out such thoughts in reality, there may be someone else who is having these thoughts who will. Violence exists because we haven’t learned how to control our mind. If the only emotion we ever have in our heart and mind is love, there would be no violence – all those other thoughts would dissolve. If you speak harshly to someone, or even just give someone a dirty look which will hurt their feelings – or what your do or say to another person causes them to feel badly – that’s a form of violence.
Can you imagine or remember a time when those around you were all in a bad mood? Perhaps you were feeling great and suddenly all these others around you were being miserable. How long would it take you to pick up on their mood and eventually find yourself in the same place? Buddha taught how everyone’s pain can become your pain, and everyone’s joy can become your joy. It’s equanimity. It’s an illusion to believe we are separate from each other. We may think we’re “just me” – but it’s more like “we are all one”. If we could become truly aware of how we are all connected, we would exude love and compassion for everyone because we would feel it, just like we could feel the example I gave above of the moods of those around you and how it affected you.
So much of what we think and do is based on our selfishness. We can come up with so many clever excuses to justify how our selfishness determines how we think. But excuses are just that – excuses. What are some of the “afflictions” Buddha says are our reasons for being so dissatisfied? A few of them are, envy, pride, doubt, anger, delusions, attachment to material things and an incorrect world view. These are all creatures of the way our minds work. They’re just thoughts and making excuses for them is a cop out!
Every time we do something, or say something, or think something based on what is in our mind, we plant a seed that will eventually flower. That flowering makes for our life experience. It’s about being aware of where our mind is and learning how to reposition it. One way to gain some control of our mind is through meditation. Yoga is also a good way. The object it to develop a mind focused on love and compassion for all others. Planting seeds of love and compassion will create a flowering which extends the definition of who you truly are.
One of the meditations I use frequently and which has helped me to work through times when negativity rears its ugly head and when I forget the interconnectedness of all of us, is the Metta or Loving Kindness meditation. Here’s a guided version I created of this meditation which I’d like to share with you. Just click the link below.
Metta ….May I be well and happy. My I live in safety. May I be healthy and strong. May I live with ease. May all beings be well and happy. May all beings live in safety. May all beings be healthy and strong. May all beings live with ease.
Namaste — Be in Peace.
Ron Rink
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Just click the links that are sort of Grey in color to take you to where you can learn more about each book and how you can purchase a copy for your own library.
Stephanie Kaza — Hooked!: Buddhist Writings on Greed, Desire, and the Urge to Consume
Stephanie Kaza, an amazing writer and Buddhist teacher I knew from my 36 years living in Vermont, gathers key Buddhist thinkers to reflect upon aspects of consumerism, greed and economics. Certainly, many other authors have examined consumerism from the lens of their religious traditions, but this book’s Buddhist perspective is unusual, and its pairing of consumerist critiques with core Buddhist concepts is generally fruitful. Check this one out! Hooked!
Stephanie Kaza — Mindfully Green: A Personal and Spiritual Guide to Whole Earth Thinking
Another one from my Vermont friend — Stephanie Kaza, a biologist and professor of Environmental Studies at University of Vermont, combines Zen Buddhist practices and teachings with her 40 years as an environmentalist for this guide to enlightened environmentalism, proposing a belief in the interdependence of people and nature as the genuine way to “go green”: “When we come to see ourselves as part of the green web of life… we are naturally drawn to respond with compassion.” A good read for Buddhists or anyone from any religion. Mindfully Green
Anam Thubten — No Self – No Problem
No Self – No Problem
shows how to realize the ultimate meaning of life in each moment by dissolving all notions of ego-identity. It asks that spiritual seekers wake up to their true nature, which is already enlightened. Based on Buddhist wisdom traditions, this easy-to-read book discusses in simple, but profound and inspiring language, how we can live a life full of love, satisfaction, and happiness. No Self – No Problem
Sharon Salzberg — The Kindness Handbook
“It takes boldness, even audacity, to step out of our habitual patterns and experiment with a quality like kindness–to work with it and see just how it might shift and open up our lives. This book is an invitation to do just that. — From The Kindness Handbook
Eckhart Tolle’s amazing best seller, A New Earth
Dr. Jill Bolte Taylor’s wonderful book, My Stroke of Insight: Nirvana is just a breath away!
And this one by Sharon Salzberg and is entitled: A Heart as Wide as the World: Living with Mindfulness, Wisdom and Compassion“.
This is a new one for you by Pema Chodron entitled: When Things Fall Apart: Heart Advice for Difficult Times
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Always remember this wonderful quote from Buddha ….
“You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.”~~~ Buddha
Shanti everyone, … (A sanscrit word meaning, “Let there be Peace. Peace, beautiful Peace. Peace within, Peace without. Peace in this world. Peace for all beings.”)
“Peace comes from within. Do not seek it without.”~~~ Buddha
Have a peaceful day!! —
Ron Rink







